3 Surprising Steps To Influence Anyone

3 Surprising Steps To Influence Anyone

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Margaery Tyrell might be the most underrated player in Game of Thrones. And it’s a shame that she meets her end so early, at least in the show, because more than any other character I’ve covered, she has the most to teach you about how to behave in the real world.

Which is cool, because unlike Littlefinger and Tywin Lannister, I don’t have to tell you NOT to do these things. We’re talking about good stuff here, so you’ll want to apply a lot of this even if you don’t live in the Game of Thrones, beginning with Margaery’s first incredible talent: her ability to build rapport with anyone. She has a number of incredibly effective strategies.

00:16 Build rapport as the HBO show Game of Thrones here shows
06:33 Learn as much as you can about the person to truly empathize
07:39 Lead them as shown as examples here from Game of Thrones

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  1. GeneralEric123
    October 20, 2017

    3:09 Joffrey, joffrey, it's a "Goatsfoot", not lever.

  2. Jerranha
    October 22, 2017

    I can't continue to watch this because I've done every single step Margaery did without realizing that they were manipulations in the first hand .-.

  3. Niki Wonoto
    October 28, 2017

    your channel is another rare & very good, informative channel, deep & educating!

  4. Skylab
    November 12, 2017

    I always thought they modeled her after Princess Diana. The way she was smart enough to know it was important to get the people to love you and feel like you're one of them.

  5. Lola Blackberries
    November 13, 2017

    U are amazing this is good stuff

  6. Paddlez-is-king
    November 17, 2017

    2:43 "While for men….."
    shows Varys

  7. octoberboiy
    November 18, 2017

    Margery reminds me of girl I liked this summer who was really good at connecting with me and my family. It got to point that I started falling in Love only to find out she did it all to find favor with my cousin and get him to ask her out. I was so hurt that she played me so well.

  8. octoberboiy
    November 18, 2017

    Also the only reason Cersei didn’t fall for Margery’s tricks was because she used to try the same thing on Rob Baratheon.

  9. Silja Bogensberger
    November 18, 2017

    Can you make a video about empathy?

  10. Shala Avans
    November 25, 2017

    I love this! Margaery is actually my favorite character aside from Daenerys. I really enjoy the series where you break down certain features of actors and characters..and was wondering if you could do a video on Hannibal Lecter (from the TV show instead of the movie)? 🙂

  11. RantingDragon
    December 1, 2017

    Thanks. This will help me with my writing.

  12. Razz Berry
    December 8, 2017

    great subject. the tyrells are shrewd politicians.

  13. Sarvarjen
    December 9, 2017

    Take off the video about Sears.

  14. LohenArc
    December 13, 2017

    And it all meant nothing in the end. Out-fucking-played by the Mad Queen Cersei.

  15. Jackie Sublett
    December 16, 2017

    ugggggh her hair is SO pretty

  16. Innos
    December 21, 2017

    Master of persuasion is a master of Empathy. I used to had this traits, but now I turned to more of a Tywin lanister like person. A Master of taking advantage of situation and intimidation.

  17. Arline Jernigan
    December 21, 2017

    This was fantastic!

  18. Commhughnism
    December 24, 2017

    Margaery could’ve gotten the throne if Cersei and the high sparrow didn’t get in the way

  19. Amalie Klitgård
    December 25, 2017

    Loved this video! Very interesting subject and good tips

  20. Manuel González
    December 27, 2017

    How Margaery influences people: 'cause she's the sexiest woman alive, maybe? Nice vid, tho!

  21. MR.X
    December 30, 2017

    3:58 you're right about that. CoachCoreyWayne says the same thing. So does HITCH. Us guys need to shut up and listen and NOT problem solve. And if you don't like what your lady is saying, find someone else.

  22. MR.X
    December 30, 2017

    GOT seems like the kind of show where an actress would have to put out to get the role. I bet Harvey Weinstein was the mastermind behind this.

  23. Slim Shady
    January 1, 2018

    There is no way George R R Martin thought about all this when he was making the show…

  24. Vedanshi Mishra
    January 3, 2018

    My boyfriend always tries to solve my silly problems whenever i just want him to listen to me. I try to make him understand that he isn't my dad and i dont consider him an expert in my situation so all he should be is ears XD Great video, so relatable!

  25. Drew R
    January 8, 2018

    " Men often like to be asked how something works, weather its a crossbow, cars, or a business" LMAO I like how you threw in that random "crossbow" in there even tho its not random for this context haha

  26. Cassee Colson
    January 9, 2018

    You should do a video on how to get a raise

  27. REAVER 14
    January 22, 2018

    Draining tommens balls didn't hurt

  28. Remy Beast
    January 24, 2018

    I mean looking like that I'm sure its easy to influence others. I was sad when they killed her so soon :/.

  29. Jacob Feldman
    January 28, 2018

    Bru you a problem!

  30. XirmiX
    January 29, 2018

    If you know the wits, and you apply them knowingly, doesn't that make what you do manipulative?

  31. Jennie Jennie
    January 30, 2018

    Hey Charley, would you mind picking a woman to do a video about? I love your videos, I also think I would gain more insight from them if some were about women. I just haven't seen many uploaded from you. Thanks!

  32. Rose Anthoney
    January 30, 2018

    I’ve been waiting for this video since I found your channel. Thank you.

  33. Anh Vo
    January 30, 2018

    Margery is hands down best got character I've always liked her amazing character. So smart

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