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Dumping my girlfriend! Funny Conversation Starter
Hi guys it’s Iain Myles here and today I’m going to be showing you some footage of me picking up a gorgeous girl with a funny conversation starter.
Guys right right before I show you the footage I just want to remind you that I run a 1-on-1 coaching programme at kamalifestyles.com where I will literally take you out to the best bars and clubs in London in order to show you how to approach , attract and date Gorgeous women just like the girl I spoke to in this video. And also I just wanna point out that this isn’t one of those bootcamp’s where you’re just another number in a large group of guys, NO. This is a personal one on one experience where I precisely pinpoint your weak points in order to get you that amazing success with hot women. So if this sounds like something you’d be interesting in checking out then feel free to get in touch with me at email@example.com. So let’s watch the footage and see how I got on !
Okay so what can we learn from this interaction ? You know what…I thought I’d give you guys something new so I started the interaction with a funny opener or conversation starter about dumping my girlfriend haha. And remember guys it was JUST an opener and nothing more haha. So the opener really resonated with the girl from the very start as she could barely contain herself and even all the way throughout the interaction. But Guys in reality there’s more to it here than just running a funny opener. It matters so much more in how you say it, in how you carry yourself forward in those initial seconds of meeting her. It’s probably not so evident from the footage as I’m facing away from the camera but I had a grin on my face when I was saying it. In fact , my whole manner and energy had a light- heartedness about it. And in my mind, all I was thinking at the time was how I can make this fun – how can I have fun with this, and so this whole approach really showed in the girl’s reaction. So the bottom line here is – just don’t take your openers too seriously, no matter what you’re starting the conversation with, just really try to have fun with it. Really try to drop any other motive you have in your mind, such as scoring with a hot girl or hooking up, just drop it. In your mind, just think about how you can have fun with it, how can you entertain yourself. And guys really try to explore here, explore what you find entertaining and there are things that I find entertaining which you won’t so you need to customise your conversation starters with what you find entertaining.
Guys in reality the opener is only there to break the ice and it really doesn’t matter what you say! It just so happens that this girl liked my sense of humor as she couldn’t stop laughing at different points in the conversation. It even got to the point where she started making jokes as she was trying to entertain me and that’s a huge sign of compliance. When the girl invests to the point where she’s trying to make jokes, that’s when you know you’ve built a lot of rapport with her, she’s relaxed and it would probably be a good time to give her some background on who you are, where you came from just to ensure you don’t become that dancing monkey. Make sure you have that discipline, that self- discipline to switch from being entertaining to being serious as it’s really easy to continue to be funny and comical but it won’t get you the full way with the girl. It’s not going to get her to your bedroom so you need to present your serious- side to the girl, your masculine- side where you’re talking about who you are and what you stand for. So put things into context a bit and tell her what you were doing and where you were going – I always like to say that I’m doing a bit of shopping but that’s just me, don’t limit yourself or your story as you should think of your own scenario.
Iain Myles is an executive dating coach of Kamalifestyles. He specializes in coaching men who have been looking for dating success and chronically unlucky with women. He publishes regular infield dating videos and social experiments in KamaTV. He’s highly experienced in live training of our clients on streets, coffee shops, in bars and clubs. Iain teaches the core principles of the approach that every guy needs to know to become successful in dating including confidence, conversational skills, connection and mind sets.
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