– The best way to approach and talk to a hot girl or woman will be detailed here in this article.
Tons of guys feel that the act of approaching and talking to a hot girl or a beautiful woman (especially when she is gorgeous) a difficult and embarrassing task.
Additionally, they usually have the incorrect mindset of being too nice and overly generous with flowers, invitations for dinners and expressing their lack of confidence and low self esteem.
Most beautiful females are not really impressed by needy, insecure, hypocrit, wishy-washy guys. They will either shoot him down in flames on the spot or possibly even take advantage of the situation by exploiting him to furnish her foot massages, meal after meal, gift after gift and normally go out with another guy for real love, romance and sex. In this situation the woman has 2 guys: a provider and a lover.
The good little innocent guy, wishy-washy, timid approach may be seen whenever a guy is inviting a woman to dance or offer to pay for her drinks a drink without first to develop the attraction or chemistry.
Is acting brash, cocky and arrogant instead of wishy-washy the correct method ?
The innocent little guy role is not the best way as already explained and acting really mean and rude will not succeed as well, the best way which has proven 90% of the times to work magically with women is the confident, bold, cocky and funny attitude. In this tactic you build the relationships on a give and take, a compliment and a bust (with a smile), you indicate the woman you’r confident enough to criticize her, you express yourself naturally around women, you are not scared of her, you are not concerned if she cares about you or not, you’r honest and express your opinions openly, you are playing the self assured hard to get funny guy. Now you bring her self confidence to the test, you challenge her, you intrigue her, you build the attraction.
Make her pursue you a little bit ! You ought to be seen as her prize to be won, a reward for her hard earned efforts for playing her cards right with you.
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Now, to continue with more tips on approaching and talking to hot girls anywhere :
If, for example, you start talking to a cute girl and say something like: I like your hair it looks really good (a simple compliment), then comment: but it doesn’t fit so well with your shoos does it ? (a bust), you do it on purpose, you should practice on it. You must manipulate her like hand it to her and then take it away in the last minute, be spontaneous, unexpected, a teaser and fascinating.
How would you know if she is interested in you ? It is simpler than you believe and it goes like that: You engage with her: What a beautiful pair of boots you’r wearing , I really like them, She is looking who is it and then say: Thank you. You: arent you melting in them at such a hot weather? (smiling) or are you trying to hide your feet from me? She: (smiling) hell, no, I love them thats all, Ill bet my feet are nicer compared to yours, Mr. long nose. (she responded therefore she is engaged too *-). You: wow, I understand you own a very good opinion about yourself pretty lady, why wont we arrange a feet contest…The crucial thing is to keep it going with light humoristic and fun attitude.
Without even being aware of it you are both engaged in developing a relationship and building your mutual attraction. When you start dating with a woman take into account you are not on a job interview, don’t cause it feel like questions and answers, don’t make it boring, don’t try to show off, talk with her about general stuff she understands and sympathize with, such as popular Television shows and such, it can look to you at the begining somewhat superficial but this is the way to take.
Attempt to avoid talking about your problems at work, your relations with your parents, siblings, etc.
One last tip : simply talk to any girl as if she were a male friend, a brother, a male cousin, etc.
By doing this, you will feel more comfortable and be less nervous. Of course you want to avoid making vulgar jokes about sex or farts when you talk to any girl you want to date.
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